Wouldn't it be nice and easy if everyone knew exactly what they wanted, paid list price as soon as they walked in.
I don't always know what I want before I go into a showroom to buy it (I thought that was what showrooms were for, so show us what the merchandise looks like to help us decide what we want?), but for everything other than cars and homes people expect to pay the price that is on the item--furniture, computers, carpeting, appliances, furnaces, whatever, all infrequent purchases just as cars are.
I'm sure some people haggle over some of the above item but it is not the standard way of doing business like buying a car always is.
I look at the current "red tag" ads for Chevies, where a Malibu for example is tagged at $2,000 below the MRSP and think, what does that red tag price even mean? Are the dealers still planning to come down a little to get the sale? I don't know. And now you tell us the salespeople themselves don't even know what a car's price is.
Like others I would love to go into a car dealer, look at the cars, point at the one I want (and one reason I like Hondas--I know other mfrs. are the same--is that you don't have a lot of options to consider and price out), look at the price on the car, hand over the check, and pick the car up when it is ready. That's the way we buy everything else.
I have a lot of sympathy for anyone working in the auto industry, 73ss--and the method of car buying (prices not set in stone, process takes a long time, a lot of layers of staff get involved) probably isn't going to change, unfortunately. It's too bad when the process, which you're telling us is justified, becomes an obstacle and causes a customer who was ready to buy to just walk out the door, like Andy did.