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I'll admit it: I never imagined I'd be divorcing in retirement. But it happened -- suddenly and unilaterally -- when my spouse's midlife crisis ended our nearly 20-year, seemingly rock-solid relationship. We kept it amicable, and in the end, it did not derail my retirement financially. But it easily could have.
For those who've been in the same boat, I have a question: Did you maintain any connection to your ex's family? They became my family, and I loved our nieces and nephews. But no one has reached out to me, and realistically chances are I'll never see them again (most live in another state I'm not likely to visit). Should I go so far as to unfriend everyone on Facebook?
For those who've been in the same boat, I have a question: Did you maintain any connection to your ex's family? They became my family, and I loved our nieces and nephews. But no one has reached out to me, and realistically chances are I'll never see them again (most live in another state I'm not likely to visit). Should I go so far as to unfriend everyone on Facebook?