No, I didn't mean MY marriage. I meant marriage as an institution...as a legal definition which prohibits me from expeditiously protecting my children from emotional harm and distress...a title that is too easy to attain, and too difficult to eliminate. We all make mistakes...marrying her was one of them. Thank goodness the true colors are showing now though - 27 years down the road I can't imagine how things would be!
That said, the concept of marriage is now more easily understood and accepted by TheFed....I had to do it for all the wrong reasons to understand the only reason one should do it!