Same. My wife and I didn't work this hard, invest wisely (mostly) to get to the point where we are almost ready to FIRE....to be taken out by some knucklehead in the general public.
I will tell you something....I have been absolutely astounded by the level of ignorance and idiocy of many people I know and respect, especially early on with this thing. These are some very successful and smart people in their respective fields. Some have come around and understand the seriousness of this pandemic. Others still seem to believe that they're all going to be at their high end beach clubs come May 31st. It's pure delusion. Truly the exact definition of the the Normalcy Bias.
My sister-in-law is a nurse at a suburban hospital here in NJ. We're about an hour south of the City. We saw her yesterday...from a distance of course. She heads up two units in this hospital. They have 70 COVID-19 patients...40 on ventilators. Patients on vents range from 30 years old into the 80s. Mortality rate there is 20% for this hospitalized. If you end up on a ventilator...goes up to 50-80%. The sad fact is that our states are scrambling for ventilators for the critically ill patients, but 50-80% will die anyway. This is a vicious virus.
Until there's an antigen test available that will inform me and my wife that we possibly had the mildest of mild cases...and have immunity, we're just not messing around with this thing. No air travel, no public spaces, no restaurants, no concerts...etc. Not until there is a medical intervention that can greatly mitigate the symptoms or a vaccine. But to travel internationally now, in my mind is insanity. We're not cruisers...but come on people....who in their right mind is getting on a cruise ship in the next year?
What I have learned about pandemics is that it's purely about science and math...and those two disciplines don't care where you live, how wealthy you, who you voted for, or who you worship. You survive a pandemic if you're lucky enough to have resources, and by being smart. Stay safe everyone...do what is best for you and your family.