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Well, no doubt your friend, if given a "do-over," would work the small amount required to get 40 qtrs credit for SS. Now, like so many folks need to do these days, she'll likely need to roll up her sleeves and work past 65. She sure won't be alone. Perhaps the business she partially owns could be modified so she could be paid from that on a W-2 with FICA withheld instead of however she is being paid now.Call it what you want, welfare or not. The income is just not nearly enough income to pay $1000+/mo on Medicare (parts + supplemental), out of pocket costs, plus all of life's other expenses.
Yes, my intent wasn't to continue a discussion on it, but it came to my mind when talking about spouses who are getting a benefit despite not meeting the 40 quarters of credit, that there are others who actually paid into SS some who are more needy and won't get anything. But we can end that discussion now.
BigDawg mentioned in an earlier post that only 4.4% of SS recipients are spousal beneficiaries. And of those, many have some benefits of their own earned, just less than 50% of their spouse's benefits. So changing the rules over time might not impact too many people too badly. I think it's getting pretty uncommon for a stay at home, married parent to never work and pay FICA over their entire lives.