Babeebloos
Dryer sheet wannabe
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- Mar 16, 2007
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I just happened on this thread and thought I might add another alternative to Counseling.
I divorced eight years ago and hadn't known about this alternative to counseling until way afterwards when I was trying to re-invent myself after 23 years of marriage and dividing up the marriage assets for better or worse...and the resultant unhappiness of dividing the families.(Plural...remember it's not just your own marriage but the in-laws as well...)
The main problem is lack of communication and understanding.
1) You think she hears and understands,... she doesn't.
2) She thinks she hears and understands...she doesn't.
3) You think you've expressed yourself fully but somehow she is not understanding.
Why not cut to the chase and enroll in a long weekend seminar called the
Landmark Forum? It is literally 'lifechanging'...and definitely I promise will
make a difference in your marriage! You will learn how to make yourself understood in a way that will move, touch and inspire your wife to the harsh realities of what may be ahead if you should decide to divorce...or to move, touch and inspire her for a 'New and better partnership' with you in Early Retirement together...which was the original plan when you first were married.
There is a Landmark Forum in Dallas Texas not far from you...check out some info at the website www.Landmarkeducation.com
If you can....try to have your wife and kids attend as well...the experience they all will have will change their lives even more than yours....they will be able to see a future for themselves, bury their own mistakes as the past and go on independently.....and happily on their own.
Kind of a Dr. Phil approach.....and faster than months of therapy.
Just saying....
I divorced eight years ago and hadn't known about this alternative to counseling until way afterwards when I was trying to re-invent myself after 23 years of marriage and dividing up the marriage assets for better or worse...and the resultant unhappiness of dividing the families.(Plural...remember it's not just your own marriage but the in-laws as well...)
The main problem is lack of communication and understanding.
1) You think she hears and understands,... she doesn't.
2) She thinks she hears and understands...she doesn't.
3) You think you've expressed yourself fully but somehow she is not understanding.
Why not cut to the chase and enroll in a long weekend seminar called the
Landmark Forum? It is literally 'lifechanging'...and definitely I promise will
make a difference in your marriage! You will learn how to make yourself understood in a way that will move, touch and inspire your wife to the harsh realities of what may be ahead if you should decide to divorce...or to move, touch and inspire her for a 'New and better partnership' with you in Early Retirement together...which was the original plan when you first were married.
There is a Landmark Forum in Dallas Texas not far from you...check out some info at the website www.Landmarkeducation.com
If you can....try to have your wife and kids attend as well...the experience they all will have will change their lives even more than yours....they will be able to see a future for themselves, bury their own mistakes as the past and go on independently.....and happily on their own.
Kind of a Dr. Phil approach.....and faster than months of therapy.
Just saying....