nomo-aloha
Dryer sheet aficionado
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- Feb 15, 2006
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Hi folks....
Not looking for any sympathy here...there's plenty of the going around. I just feel compelled, for some strange reason, to start this thread.
A good friend of mine died here in Hawaii this week. An absolutely incredible guy that in 15 years, I never heard say a bad word about anyone.
He was my banker and made me look forward to stopping into his branch. I'd spend about 15 minutes a few times a week shooting the shiz with him. Rather repetitious was our greeting:
Me: "how's it going Greg"?
Greg: "I'm blessed____, I really am and how are you my friend"?
Mostly we talked boxing and football. Often he'd lecture me (in his very cool way) about how I need to do better with my money. More times than not he'd back off and play devil's avocate by saying; "but you sure have fun...dontcha'? One of these days you have to take me with you to vegas for a fight" Sporting his ever present patented smile. He knows I love to travel...(and spend). I really thought we'd one day see a fight together.
"One day I'm going to need some travel tips from you....as soon as the kids are out of school,_____(his wife) and I are going to travel around the world. we have a special fund set up and we're both taking a year off".
Greg was in absolutely great shape. If I know 1000 people here, his name would be near the bottom of the list of people I would expect to die so suddenly. I am still in shock.
Anyway....you know where I'm going with this. Greg did not see the world. He was dedicated to his job and his family and I think he had did a good job balancing the two. But he never lived his dream.
I need to figure out how to exit this thread now. I know you are all, for the most part, very decent people so again, please don't feel the need to give condolences and such. My only objective here is to fortify what you already know and that is....you NEVER know.
I don't wanna' sound like a cornball here but, please enjoy your (every) day.
Ciao, Greg. You are missed.
Not looking for any sympathy here...there's plenty of the going around. I just feel compelled, for some strange reason, to start this thread.
A good friend of mine died here in Hawaii this week. An absolutely incredible guy that in 15 years, I never heard say a bad word about anyone.
He was my banker and made me look forward to stopping into his branch. I'd spend about 15 minutes a few times a week shooting the shiz with him. Rather repetitious was our greeting:
Me: "how's it going Greg"?
Greg: "I'm blessed____, I really am and how are you my friend"?
Mostly we talked boxing and football. Often he'd lecture me (in his very cool way) about how I need to do better with my money. More times than not he'd back off and play devil's avocate by saying; "but you sure have fun...dontcha'? One of these days you have to take me with you to vegas for a fight" Sporting his ever present patented smile. He knows I love to travel...(and spend). I really thought we'd one day see a fight together.
"One day I'm going to need some travel tips from you....as soon as the kids are out of school,_____(his wife) and I are going to travel around the world. we have a special fund set up and we're both taking a year off".
Greg was in absolutely great shape. If I know 1000 people here, his name would be near the bottom of the list of people I would expect to die so suddenly. I am still in shock.
Anyway....you know where I'm going with this. Greg did not see the world. He was dedicated to his job and his family and I think he had did a good job balancing the two. But he never lived his dream.
I need to figure out how to exit this thread now. I know you are all, for the most part, very decent people so again, please don't feel the need to give condolences and such. My only objective here is to fortify what you already know and that is....you NEVER know.
I don't wanna' sound like a cornball here but, please enjoy your (every) day.
Ciao, Greg. You are missed.