I have several years of experience working in a memory eval center and Assisted living
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For families that have pre-existing drama, the decision making needed when someone is diagnosed with cognitive impairment is usually chaotic ! Many examples are described above.
One fact that some are not aware of is that certain forms of dementia do not initially present with memory loss and instead the person has personality/mood or behavior changes.
On a personal basis, We are friends with a couple in which the DH experienced financial fraud (about $60,000) . The DW did not know about it because the account was in his name only. Adult Protective services was called. He's having cognitive eval now but its sad that his wife was not aware.
In my experience, Family members sometimes do not "want " to see changes until an event (financial or driving or legal) occurs.
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For families that have pre-existing drama, the decision making needed when someone is diagnosed with cognitive impairment is usually chaotic ! Many examples are described above.
One fact that some are not aware of is that certain forms of dementia do not initially present with memory loss and instead the person has personality/mood or behavior changes.
On a personal basis, We are friends with a couple in which the DH experienced financial fraud (about $60,000) . The DW did not know about it because the account was in his name only. Adult Protective services was called. He's having cognitive eval now but its sad that his wife was not aware.
In my experience, Family members sometimes do not "want " to see changes until an event (financial or driving or legal) occurs.