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This has been an interesting thread for me because:
1. A situation on the inlaw side of my family occurred a few years ago which is so similar it's facinating. Sadly, it ended poorly and now is an unpleasant discussion topic with local relatives bitching about out of town relatives whenever the locals are together for Thanksgiving, Christmas, etc. In fact, this thread has reminded me of the dreaded bitch session which will no doubt occur at dinner tomorrow....... Thankfully, it turns from hissing to laughing in about ten minutes.
2. My elderly MIL needs some money management overview to help her get by financially and DW thinks I am the perfect candidate to do so. I even began digging in and got some great advise on this forum. But since then, remembering the previously mentioned incident, I've backed out and strongly encouraged DW to get one of her siblings to be the "go to guy." No way do I want to become the BIL who "screwed things up" or is "hiding something" or yadda-yadda-yadda....... No matter what you do, whatever course of action your pursue, you'll be overviewed and critiqued later by all the folks not doing anything now.....
Buckeye..... my best wishes and hopes that your mom and her brother are able to reconcile this issue to their mutual satisfaction and without grudges or hard feelings. These are always tough situations. Good luck and thanks for sharing this. It's been a good reminder for me!
1. A situation on the inlaw side of my family occurred a few years ago which is so similar it's facinating. Sadly, it ended poorly and now is an unpleasant discussion topic with local relatives bitching about out of town relatives whenever the locals are together for Thanksgiving, Christmas, etc. In fact, this thread has reminded me of the dreaded bitch session which will no doubt occur at dinner tomorrow....... Thankfully, it turns from hissing to laughing in about ten minutes.
2. My elderly MIL needs some money management overview to help her get by financially and DW thinks I am the perfect candidate to do so. I even began digging in and got some great advise on this forum. But since then, remembering the previously mentioned incident, I've backed out and strongly encouraged DW to get one of her siblings to be the "go to guy." No way do I want to become the BIL who "screwed things up" or is "hiding something" or yadda-yadda-yadda....... No matter what you do, whatever course of action your pursue, you'll be overviewed and critiqued later by all the folks not doing anything now.....
Buckeye..... my best wishes and hopes that your mom and her brother are able to reconcile this issue to their mutual satisfaction and without grudges or hard feelings. These are always tough situations. Good luck and thanks for sharing this. It's been a good reminder for me!