CardsFan
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
Our DS is almost 38, and just proposed to his GF of several years. First marriage for both. She is a few years younger. Wedding is expected a year from now. We are 64, retired, with a significant nest egg.
In our case, no plans to control from the grave. He will inherit it all when we pass. How he deals with it is up to him. The only possible change to this would be, if they have kids, we might set up something for them, to at least take care of college. Could be 529's, or could just be a bequest in the will.
FWIW, we adore our future DIL, and have spent time with her folks and sister (and BF), as well. No one knows what the future holds. I prefer to keep a positive out look.
In our case, no plans to control from the grave. He will inherit it all when we pass. How he deals with it is up to him. The only possible change to this would be, if they have kids, we might set up something for them, to at least take care of college. Could be 529's, or could just be a bequest in the will.
FWIW, we adore our future DIL, and have spent time with her folks and sister (and BF), as well. No one knows what the future holds. I prefer to keep a positive out look.