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I love this answer so much.
DD is 34. Otherwise, you pretty much have the scene described.
The real question is how to not do this? This isn't the first time. For example, while in college, DD moved into an apartment. I'm sure she was excited, but my initial reaction was that it was a dump. DD's boy friend's Mom came in a was all excited and said how great it was. I'm sure she's either blind or she's learned this lesson. FWIW, within a month, DD heard a rat in her walls, it died, she had to fight with the management to rectify the situation . . . It was a dump, but being right didn't make me feel any better. I want to stop focusing on the negative, but it is who me and DW are.
For those that do it well, do you just pause and never say anything negative? Are you just a glass 3/4 full kind of person? Me and DW spoiled a great idea of DD, it isn't the first time and I want to figure out how to stop.
I would call her and tell her how much you enjoyed the delicious cookies and thank her for such a lovely gesture and driving so far. Then remind her how much you love her and really miss seeing her. In any event, sometimes young adults might never understand your perspective until they have kids of their own.
I think the real issue of me and DW being negative or at least focusing on the wrong thing is probably best solved by us taking time to respond and give better thought to what we really want to say given the outcome we’d like to have.
Thank for all the input. I think the real issue of me and DW being negative or at least focusing on the wrong thing is probably best solved by us taking time to respond and give better thought to what we really want to say given the outcome we’d like to have. That will be tough.
Thanks everyone.