It seems like something you and your SO have to work out. I think I'd resent working at a hard job I disliked and watching my SO do something he enjoyed. Actually, since I'm retired, and my SO is working for himself... I think sometimes he expects me to do all this additional stuff since I'm not working - but I worked hard so I could retire and NOT do extra housework or whatever. If I want to read a novel all day, I'm okay with that.
When you have two people with different goals it is always hard. When you have two people who want different levels of home maintenance (us) it's pretty stressful too. So I guess you need to be sure that you and your SO are on the same page in terms of long-term goals to retire early (or whatever) and he understands what affect his income - or lack of it - will mean....
Just my two cents. It's hard. Luckily you're young enough that you have some time to reach your goals. Meanwhile... work on the discussion.
The poster who said to talk about your SO's goals is right, also - maybe his goals are different than you think.
Good luck!
When you have two people with different goals it is always hard. When you have two people who want different levels of home maintenance (us) it's pretty stressful too. So I guess you need to be sure that you and your SO are on the same page in terms of long-term goals to retire early (or whatever) and he understands what affect his income - or lack of it - will mean....
Just my two cents. It's hard. Luckily you're young enough that you have some time to reach your goals. Meanwhile... work on the discussion.
The poster who said to talk about your SO's goals is right, also - maybe his goals are different than you think.
Good luck!