DangerMouse
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
Yesterday, after 3 months of getting mauled, we finally got a diagnose from a pest controller that we have bed bugs in our apartment. I suspected as much for nearly the entire time, but as we live in a rental and the corporation who own it are responsible for pest inspection were telling us they could find nothing. Over this time I have become an expert on bed bugs, the following page from Wikipedia tells the story.
Bedbug - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
I am sure many people will think like I used to, that bed bugs mean filth etc. however that is not the case. Bed bugs are on the rise and the way you get them is to bring them into your house, the most likely source being from hotel rooms.
My dilemma is I suspect we picked them up when we stayed with a friend, as by a strange coincidence the bites started a week after we got back and we had not been anywhere for the prior 4 months. This fits with the feeding cycle of the pest. The condo we stayed at was their rental unit. I feel we should say something to them, not accusing them but something along the lines of "I thought you should know that we have been diagnosed with bed bugs. You probably have nothing to worry about, but we are back tracking to everywhere we stayed the past few months and just wanted to let you know. I expect we picked them up when we went to Vegas the week after we were at your place, but it is probably worth getting an inspection as you can have them without knowing it." DH on the other hand says we should say nothing.
Ethically I believe this to be wrong. I have suffered significantly the past 3 months from the bites, Drs visits, the pain, (they never bite DH at all) and to remedy the problem is probably going to cost in the ballpark of $1,500 and I do not want anyone else to go thru the same thing I have.
So should I shut my mouth or am I obliged to say something?
Bedbug - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
I am sure many people will think like I used to, that bed bugs mean filth etc. however that is not the case. Bed bugs are on the rise and the way you get them is to bring them into your house, the most likely source being from hotel rooms.
My dilemma is I suspect we picked them up when we stayed with a friend, as by a strange coincidence the bites started a week after we got back and we had not been anywhere for the prior 4 months. This fits with the feeding cycle of the pest. The condo we stayed at was their rental unit. I feel we should say something to them, not accusing them but something along the lines of "I thought you should know that we have been diagnosed with bed bugs. You probably have nothing to worry about, but we are back tracking to everywhere we stayed the past few months and just wanted to let you know. I expect we picked them up when we went to Vegas the week after we were at your place, but it is probably worth getting an inspection as you can have them without knowing it." DH on the other hand says we should say nothing.
Ethically I believe this to be wrong. I have suffered significantly the past 3 months from the bites, Drs visits, the pain, (they never bite DH at all) and to remedy the problem is probably going to cost in the ballpark of $1,500 and I do not want anyone else to go thru the same thing I have.
So should I shut my mouth or am I obliged to say something?