What?
When?
Why?
To Whom?
Are your gifts reciprocated?
A subject that has been discussed in the past... time for an update.
A long time ago, with our immediate family, we mutually agreed that this was not necessary. For some occasions, a phone call, and maybe an invitation to go out for dinner together.
No less love, no less caring. If anything we're closer together, because there are no mistakes, no comparisons, and no pressure. It just works.
Only exception is for children under 10, and once in a while, when circumstances are right, a nominal amount of money... equally to the family members, but never as birthday, Christmas, anniversary etc. gifts.
How do you handle gifting?
When?
Why?
To Whom?
Are your gifts reciprocated?
A subject that has been discussed in the past... time for an update.
A long time ago, with our immediate family, we mutually agreed that this was not necessary. For some occasions, a phone call, and maybe an invitation to go out for dinner together.
No less love, no less caring. If anything we're closer together, because there are no mistakes, no comparisons, and no pressure. It just works.
Only exception is for children under 10, and once in a while, when circumstances are right, a nominal amount of money... equally to the family members, but never as birthday, Christmas, anniversary etc. gifts.
How do you handle gifting?
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