OP here. I like reading the posts from other "Beach Bums", I use the term loosely.
We certainly like where we are as there is a good blend of tourist town and locals. While our traffic has got worse over the years, we really do not notice it as unbearable. When we went looking on the West coast from Naples to Tampa, it was really oppressive, at least for us from what we are used to. We purposely went in the high season to do our evaluations and house hunting.
Having "Beach" in our towns title still makes me feel happy, why I do not know. another thing about our town I like is that we have "Call ahead seating" at local restaurants, not reservations as such although some still do. If one decides to go out to eat, one can call the restaurant and request call ahead seating, they will, let us know the best time to turn up.
If I had a complaint is would be one still needs a car, even though everything is 10 minutes or less away, a car is still needed, public transportation is very limited.
We particularly like our development too. We are not great socializers and reserve that for our regular friends. So going to the club and sitting around with folk over a beer is not our thing, we would rather do that at each other's homes. In addition, lawn care is mandatory and for us is included in our HOA, so when walking around everything typically looks well kept, unless one's grass gets stressed which happens a lot around here.
Our community's club is a private golf club with optional membership. There are various levels of membership from Full Golf, Partial Golf and other amenities and a Social Membership with access to fitness, pool, clubhouse etc. As we are not golfers this suited us fine when we were evaluating the costs as it significantly reduces the HOA costs depending on one's level of membership choice. Membership is not mandatory but does not require an initiation fee if one is a resident, or at least it was the last time we checked.
Sounds like I am convincing myself to stay put. Well, that would be true of we could find a smaller home without a pool, with concrete construction. Unfortunately, everyone that moves here puts in a pool if there is not one already there, so pickings are very slim.