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My FIL and MIL have just turned 79 and are slowing down considerably. FIL still works and says he will till he drops. They are quite nice people but have never been any good with money issues. Their net worth is negative, most of their excess cash flow goes to past taxes or CC interest and there are no retirement funds. They barely make it from one SS check to the next. They have 4 adult children who were taught the wrong methods when it comes to money (I married one and have no regreats). Now I have voiced my concerns to the other siblings that the parents will need help financially. So far no family member has stepped up to offer help. I have indicated Ill cover my 1/4th of their needs but did not want to be the only one offering help. DW is the oldest of the 4 siblings and is open to us helping if needed however the other siblings say they have money needs of their own and can't help. The other siblings are clearly living beyond their means and have kids still in school. My question is should I consider further assistance (I can afford it) or insist on only covering my pro-rata share (4 siblings or 25%). In a few years I see the in-laws needing serious financial help and don't want to be the only family member willing to assist. Anyone ever been in this situation?