ivinsfan
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I read it this way: 3 adult kids were each getting 1/3. The proposal is that the adult kid w/o kids still gets 1/3. The other 2 adult kids w/kids have to split their 1/3 with their kids, with the adult kids getting 1/2 of 1/3 and their kids getting equal shares of the other 1/2 of 1/3.
With the further info given about the one spouse, it seems that this plan will not effectively accomplish what is desired. It also might alienate kids against the Mom and/or each other. Why should the adult child who didn't have kids get more? Why should the adult child w/o the troublesome spouse get less? Why should any grandchild get more than another grandchild?
Disclaimer: I'm an only child, so no sibling issues here.
I agree with you which is why I asked for more details. Someone is going to be offended with shouldn't be the OP's primary concern as long as she realizes this could cause problems.