+1 on why support is being withdrawn..... there has to be a reason...
Also, what kind of family dynamics are you stepping into with the help?
+1 Speaking as someone who worked her way through college with scholarships, virtually no loans, and no parental help (other than my living at home for the first 2 years and during the summers), I can still remember vividly the many ways in which my peers paid for their educations.
There were some who seemed to assume someone else should help them. Even though they might have gotten some help from a sympathetic relative, it didn't seem to make them study any harder.
I went through a CA community college for two years, working the whole time to save money so I could transfer after earning the GenEd "stamp." I wasn't thrilled about living at home, but it certainly reduced my costs. And I learned that I'd better find a way to work with my parents so I could continue living there.
A lot of my friends did the same, and eventually earned CSU or UC degrees.
Yet I saw other peers and---throughout my career----- many of my students who weren't interested in maintaining working relationships with their families. So they had to take out more loans and take longer to get through school. I met few who approached relatives, expecting them to fund their education.
If someone wants an education, he/she will get one, especially in CA, where the community college system is affordable and very well streamlined for students to transfer to CSU and UC. (I know fees and tuition have gone up a lot in the past decades; but they still cost less than a college education here in OH.) I feel lucky to have earned degrees at both the CSU and the UC.
I saw many of my CA students graduate and work their way through college without much parental help. It might take them 6 years but they did it!