Omni550: Don't be offended as everyone is just having fun. Nothing wrong with personals as W2R met her Frank there, and that seems to have jelled spectacularly. We funni'n...chill.
Me, however, I plan to go out alot when I'm ready to meet the opposite sex. Places like the health club and similar interests...maybe hang around Home Depot..ha! Too many "players" on those personals I think who aren't really serious on most of those boards, but you never know (refer to above).
EHarmony's owner has some right-wing religious affiliation, so he isn't exactly objective in his personality "assessment" test. I'd pass that particular one up myself. Do know some who had great luck with Match.com, tho.
Orchidflower,
I wasn't the least bit offended, sorry if it sounded that way.
I thought those dating videos were hysterically funny.
I'm just curious to know how others are meeting (or suggest meeting) date-able people these days, as I'm interested in meeting someone.
I do go out a lot. I've been going to the gym and dancing, not with the intent of meeting men, but to keep myself in shape and because I enjoy dancing.
For the last 9 months, I've been going to the gym at least 3 times a week and have yet to meet someone there.
For the past year, I've been taking dance lessons and going to ballroom dances anywhere from 3 to 5 times a week. Through these dance connections, I've had 2 men express an interest in seeing me. I met one for lunch and that was it.
I've been online dating for about 9 months and have met 17 guys for a "meet & greet". Of these, I went out on dates with 8 of them. (Interesting side-note: One of these online guys, whom I ended-up dating a few times, thought he recognized me from the gym, and that's what he said in his first email to me. Had it not been for my profile on the internet dating site, we never would have met.)
I live in a major metropolitan area. Strictly from from a numbers perspective: there are probably 50-100 eligible single men in my age range at my gym, probably a similar number in the dance community that I participate in, and literally hundreds, if not thousands, in the local (within 75 miles) online dating community.
I do go to Home Depot (I'm usually busy looking for a plumbing part or a bag of mulch) and haven't met any guys there yet.
I joined several meetup.com groups and have gone on a number of local hikes. Interestingly, most of the hikers are in their 20's and 30's (I'm in my late 50's), so there haven't been any dates resulting.
I am in the midst perusing the latest adult ed catalogs to see if there are any classes that sound interesting.
As this is board is filled with intelligent people, I'd love to hear your suggestions on 'ways and means' to meet other eligible singles.
omni