Amethyst
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Some members of my family are the exact opposite. Despite it being none of their beeswax, some keep asking me when I'm going to finally retire for real (they know I work 2 days a week). Geez, you'd think I was 70 and slaving away in a sweatshop, instead of "consulting" [=doing what I like, taking off whenever I want] for decent money.
Other than a few nosy questions, though, I don't run into many problems with "can't talk about anything." That is because there is so much, in a long life, to talk about. There are so many, many topics for discussion that have nothing to do with politics, religion, money, and what people do for a living. What about pets, gardens, art, music, theater, history, hobbies of all kinds, the outdoors, mechanical things, chemistry, health, fitness, psychology....
Other than a few nosy questions, though, I don't run into many problems with "can't talk about anything." That is because there is so much, in a long life, to talk about. There are so many, many topics for discussion that have nothing to do with politics, religion, money, and what people do for a living. What about pets, gardens, art, music, theater, history, hobbies of all kinds, the outdoors, mechanical things, chemistry, health, fitness, psychology....
I completely agree. My family has made fun of me for years for being cheap and was stunned and almost angry when i told them I was going to retire early- even my sister who is a SAHM was shocked and insistent that I not quit. They kept thinking of ways for me to keep working- part time- consulting, etc. So I can't talk to them about it, and I have a real need to talk about it. At the moment, it is my most important- and closest goal. This is why I'm here. When I want to bounce ideas off of someone, this is the ONLY place to do it.
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