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prudent_one;1883469}...... but I have come to understand their way of thinking. It's this: You had money when they didn't. Obviously you don't need money said:because you don't need the money[/B]. Why, if THEY had money and YOU needed some, they'd be right there for you! And they wouldn't be so petty as to be upset about not getting paid back until it was convenient for you.
That's how they think. In their minds, they imagine that the tables could be turned and to justify their non-repayment, they convince themselves that they would never hound you for repayment until you were ready. Because they are never going to be "ready" to repay.
Its possible, but can you really find an example where they gave approximately the same amount to someone else ? lending a cig or $20 does not count, they might do that for pride.
Otherwise the reason could be:
They think "He is stupid and soft and will give us some money if we ask a bunch of times, if not someone else will. After all it's only fair, he has extra".
The thought of them giving to someone does not happen.