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Give me a museum and I'll fill it. (Picasso) Give
however, i do think about it alot and i do agree with you that lack of networking, lack of mentoring and "don't want to start problems" are very common traits for asian. Asian tends to hang out with similar group and as i said earlier "i do need to get out more often" meaning going out of my comfort zone of hanging out with family and other asian.
Enuff, this reminded me of a male Asian friend of my oldest daughter. They attended high school together and were casual acquaintances, but ran in different circles. Both graduated near the top of their class. Two years after graduating, they ended up at the same college. He didn't have a car and would catch a ride home with her some weekends.
Spending hours in the car together they got to know each other pretty well. He confessed to her that his greatest fear in life, both when he was in high school and now in college, was that he would turn out to be "the dumbest Asian in his class". That's some real pressure.