I thought our 50th reunion was fantastic. Hardly anyone was at all as I remembered them and it was fascinating to hear how their lives had gone in all those years. I was particularly surprised by how many had eventually attended post-secondary school and had professional careers. Chicago Public Schools were not noted for academic performance in those days but you did get a big dose of street smarts. A big dose.
To help explain the contrast, my high school was the model for the fictional "Rydell High" in the musical "Grease." Composer/writer Jim Jacobs attended 3 - 4 years before us but things were pretty much the same. My memories of friends and classmates were mostly of tough guys wearing engineer boots, Levi's and white tee shirts with a pack of Lucky Strikes rolled up in one sleeve. (Yes, I smoked like a chimney in high school!) We were referred to as "Greasers" and thus the name of the musical.
From Wikipedia:
The show's original production was directed by Guy Barile, choreographed by Ronna Kaye and produced by the Kingston Mines Theatre Company founded by June Pyskacek on Chicago's Lincoln Avenue. The script was based on Jim Jacobs' experience at William Taft High School, Chicago.[1] Warren Casey collaborated with Jim and together they wrote the music and lyrics. It ran for eight months.[8] In addition to the "R-rated" profanity and deliberate use of shock value, the Chicago version of Grease included an almost entirely different songbook, which was shorter and included multiple references to real Chicago landmarks
One of our classmates was Terry Kath (deceased), a founding member of the group "Chicago." Unbelievable guitar player!
At the reunion, it was all different. No engineer boots, switchblades or Lucky Strikes. Mostly just a bunch of old guys I didn't recognize by sight, conservatively dressed and sharing life stories reflecting routine to super-successful careers, families and living all over the country. Very, very interesting!
There was a list posted of the guys we lost to the Vietnam War. Sad and surprisingly long. Since not too many of us went directly to college and thus missed out on the infamous 2S deferment, it was a short path from the graduation stage to the induction center.
The folks I found most interesting and had the most memories of were the folks I went to grade school as well as high school with. I had known some of them from K - 12! The area the grade school drew from was only a half square mile or so. In our crowded neighborhood, you could see the homes of many of your friends while standing on your front stoop. Others were just around the corner or maybe a couple blocks away. So we knew each other and each other's families well. It was great to reconnect! We liked it so much that we have continued to get together annually and a few of us more often.
I suppose the high school reunion was a one time event (for me) as when the 60th rolls around, many will be deceased or needing a nurse and wheel chair to attend. But I'm sure glad I at least got to the 50th. And I plan to continue hooking up with the old grade school friends as long as we can. The old 'hood has been gentrified so it's no longer possible to visit to reminisce.