tomorrowsomewherenew
Confused about dryer sheets
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Any update?
I'm pretty familiar with the ATC work schedule. My sister and her husband are both ATC and they are always on a crazy schedule--overnights, early mornings, late nights, you name it, they work it.
I can also relate to your day to day situation, as I've got a little one at home. My best suggestion is to hang in there. Literally day-to-day. Make the best of life right now. You are both severely sleep deprived, but that won't last forever. The older one will eventually start pre-school, and then a year or two later, the younger one will as well. It gets easier. Really. I honestly think that 95% of your problem is that neither of you have any free time to pursue your own interests, and neither of you are getting any sleep. That will make anyone difficult to deal with. In a week things will probably be easier than they are now, and in a month, and in 6 months. You get the picture.
Oh, and I wouldn't have any more kids right now. (Duh) You've got your hands full with as much as you can handle. If you want another one, you still have time.
I'm pretty familiar with the ATC work schedule. My sister and her husband are both ATC and they are always on a crazy schedule--overnights, early mornings, late nights, you name it, they work it.
I can also relate to your day to day situation, as I've got a little one at home. My best suggestion is to hang in there. Literally day-to-day. Make the best of life right now. You are both severely sleep deprived, but that won't last forever. The older one will eventually start pre-school, and then a year or two later, the younger one will as well. It gets easier. Really. I honestly think that 95% of your problem is that neither of you have any free time to pursue your own interests, and neither of you are getting any sleep. That will make anyone difficult to deal with. In a week things will probably be easier than they are now, and in a month, and in 6 months. You get the picture.
Oh, and I wouldn't have any more kids right now. (Duh) You've got your hands full with as much as you can handle. If you want another one, you still have time.