superdave
Recycles dryer sheets
When working as an RN, my wife was able to deflect some eldercare responsibilities because she had work commitments. Now that she has recently retired, the flood gates have opened. The family calendar is littered with elder doctor visits, emergency visits, etc. This has been going on for decades, but since my wife's retirement, it is constant. Not that it matters, but the elder is question is my wife's mother, who really did nothing to help us out when we needed it with a young family, but who has required constant support for at least 2 decades.
I have considered consoling to address the marriage issues this is creating, or simply going back to work in a contract ( ideally travel ). At least then, my schedule is my own.
Anyone else had a similar experience? What approach worked best?
I have considered consoling to address the marriage issues this is creating, or simply going back to work in a contract ( ideally travel ). At least then, my schedule is my own.
Anyone else had a similar experience? What approach worked best?