Koolau
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How is the fault of the AA customer service people that things are hosed up beyond belief.. Answer, it isn't. We should be grateful they actually show up at work knowing the crapshow that will have to endure.. I had major and I mean major issue when my Mother died and yes it was Delta's fault. I stood at the service counter after missing the last possible connection. I couldn't help myself and started crying trying to explain the circumstances. The gentleman helping me gave me a kleenex starting checking all adjacent airports and got me close enough to have a BIL come and pick us to attend family services. He handed me our tickets and said I am so sorry for your loss. That meant a lot.
Yeah, that's a pretty extreme example that allowed the agent to show some real compassion. So glad that he did.
DW was arriving from HNL into DEN (IIRC) but her connection to our home airport was cancelled. This was all in the middle of the night while I slept. She said "Get me to any place within 250 miles of my destination and Hubby will drive to get me." She called me at the last minute to keep me from going to the wrong airport as she'd gotten the last seat to a destination 100 miles away. Worked out great as the agent went to bat for her at the last moment. YES, it was the air line's "fault" but the agent can really make a difference. YMMV