My SO was laid off right before lockdown and hasn't been able to find a job since--going on 9 months now. He's gotten a few interviews, but with all the uncertainty there just aren't a lot of opportunities coming in.
We have typically paid our equal share and have always had a healthy money relationship. But now with employment looking unfavorable near term (maybe until pandemic subsides??), I'm wondering if I shouldn't pitch in more to our joint expenses temporarily until he finds something. My job is secure and I can do so without jeopardizing my financial goals. He had a good sized emergency fund, but it's dwindling and I know the stress is building.
How have you all dealt with this kind of thing? I feel like I'm being stingy not offering up some help given the circumstances, but honestly I've never been in this position before so struggling a bit with how to proceed. Thanks.
We have typically paid our equal share and have always had a healthy money relationship. But now with employment looking unfavorable near term (maybe until pandemic subsides??), I'm wondering if I shouldn't pitch in more to our joint expenses temporarily until he finds something. My job is secure and I can do so without jeopardizing my financial goals. He had a good sized emergency fund, but it's dwindling and I know the stress is building.
How have you all dealt with this kind of thing? I feel like I'm being stingy not offering up some help given the circumstances, but honestly I've never been in this position before so struggling a bit with how to proceed. Thanks.