robnplunder
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
You know what, I apologize for coming to the wrong place. I should have gone to a real face -to-face stroke support group.
Now that I've been called a gold digger, I'd like to clarify that would I would like is for him to *make the choice.* If he wants to keep working, then he should keep working, and actually work - not sit around surfing the net while I do all the marketing, all the accounting and clerical work, make sure he does his taxes,
maitain his linkedin page, try to get his web site up and running for him, write the copy for it, make sure he gets business cards, try to get him to read a book on marketing,
and all that crap, all the while also taking him round to lots of doctors and making sure he gets good care by doing tons of health research. And all the while doing all the cooking and cleaning too.
I am sucked dry. So PLEASE don't on your high horses and judge me for being
a gold digger, without even taking the time to read what I actually said in my OP.
If he chooses to retire that is fine, and if he chooses to work, that is fine too, IF he actually works!
I'm so sorry that I posted about something more than just what investments to make after retiring.
Yes, I really really know that I'm the one who has to figure it out. My god, I guess all those stroke survivors have to figure it out for themselves too. I don't know what the point of any stroke support group is? I mean really, how co-dependent!
Thank you to those who actually meant well. I'm done here. Can I delete my own thread?
Sigh. Some posters took your initial post seriously enough to give their well meaning advices and you came back with this.