Finally! I thought for a while I might be the only one... Started in my thirties with Bard's Tale on a C-64. Been playing computer games ever since (so that's three decades).
Have to admit we play a LOT. We used to use iMacs, but for gaming you can really use a PC. So we each have a PC and monitor set up in the Living Room at our seats on the couch.
Skyrim rocked, but my wife and I prefer co-op games. There is a team trying to mod it so it is multi-player. Nothing yet.
https://skyrim-together.com/
We played WoW for over 12 years, but got tired of it about seven years ago. They just kept changing the skill set, and I couldn't keep up. I mean, just when I manage to learn to do decent DPS for my Paladin, they changed everything! That was it for me... [grumble, grumble] Did like it though.
We play Ark: Survival Evolved while we watch TV. We play PVE on our own server with a password, so no PVP involvements. Funny story on that one, though. When we first started playing we used an open world, built habitats, etc. Lots of stuff in storage. This guy popped in, asked if he could join. DW said sure, why not? A while later we were back at our main base and all our storage was empty. He didn't take it, just trashed it all and logged off. Hence, the password.
I loved the Fallout series. Played Fallout 4 multiple times. Multi-player Fallout 76 was fun for a while, and DW joined me. Still pop in to that one occasionally.
Love Runescape. Had an account so long ago it was the sixteen bit graphics. My original account got banned when someone hacked it and used my toon as a gold broker. There's no coming back from that. At least I know what to do with the newer guy.
Minecraft. That's a go-to though it is single player.
My son wants me to learn to compete with him (teamed) in Starcraft II, but he's a Diamond-level player, so that's not going to happen.
My brother wanted me to join him in The Division 2, but he has a team developed from the first and I'm the outlier. He's big into Tanks.
Far Cry Primal (it's okay). Subnautica (love the building mechanics). 7 Days to Die (I don't live long.)
Have tried lots of games, but prefer the survival/build games, which is why we like Ark and Subnautica (and where Minecraft shined, even if it was only blocks).
Might check some of the ones you mentioned. Thanks.
And thanks for asking...