Guamaniac
Dryer sheet aficionado
I can think of a couple of ways to make my exit relatively easy. Without being graphic, I offer the CIA spy method of a poison pill. I also saw this example on the recent Vikings Valhalla series. One of the characters knew she was dying a painful death and created a poison pill with plant materials she knew were fatal.
I didn’t mean to make this a focus of my post. I’m really trying to get suggestions or advice on making the older, older years easier.
After witnessing DM's dementia and eventual death in 2019 and now moving DD to AL and then memory care for his dementia I have looked into LTC insurance but just couldn't stomach the premiums for something I may not use. And the premiums keep moving higher. I've also read about people having trouble collecting from the insurance companies at times.
DD's memory care is about $75k/yr for a good facility for our area. A top notch place runs about $120k/yr. I plugged these numbers into firecalc starting at age 84 and was good with the lower amount but came close to a failure with the higher number. My assumption is that the first person to have problems would be cared for by the other and it would be the surviving spouse that would need AL at some point.
If that were the case, our home would no longer be needed and would be sold.
Once I added the home value into firecalc the numbers looked much better.
Just a few days ago I went to the federal LTC insurance sight to look at rates again and got a message that said they had suspended applications to "thoroughly assess benefit offerings and establish sustainable premium rates that reasonably and equitably reflect the cost of the benefits provided".
I think the costs are just getting way out of hand.