Yep. I know I may get in trouble with some for this, but if an attractive young lady takes a job that requires "tight clothes and tiny shorts", then they better be prepared for that environment. Doesn't give anyone the right to do anything unacceptable of course, but it's naive to think there isn't something that comes with that territory. Get a job in a different environment if you are not ready to handle it. And yes, some girls are going to play along for the tips. I don't like that either, but that's the truth of the world.
-ERD50
By "handle it" I presume you mean sexual harassment just comes with the "territory" and young women should put up with it? News flash: sexual harassment happens in
every working environment, and it isn't predicated upon how women dress. It is, as has been mentioned several times, absolutely a
power move. Nothing more, nothing less.
I worked in a very professional organization for 25 years. Everyone dressed in appropriate business attire (men and women).
One VP thought his female employees' bodies were his property, and he treated them as such. He was out on his ear within a year because people spoke up.
He only
ever behaved inappropriately with younger, vulnerable female staff of lower professional status. He certainly didn't try that cr@p with his female peers or the female VPs.
It is 2023. We are long past the days where it was/is acceptable to blame women who are harassed or assaulted for "wearing the wrong clothes" or "asking for it."
The problem is with the man's behavior. Full stop.
I'm heartened to see numerous posts from men on this thread who do realize where the responsibility lies, and who aren't blaming the woman in this situation (or other situations).