Koolau
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With regards to paying cash for a house, it sounds like even Dave Ramsey isn't "My way or the highway" about it. Searching around, I found this blurb...
“I don’t borrow money, but I don’t yell at people for taking out a 15-year fixed mortgage where the payment is no more than 1/4 of your take-home pay,” said Ramsey during an episode of The Ramsey Show. “Philosophically, I don’t borrow money, so it’s not an option for me.”
FWIW, my first home, a condo, was $84,000 back in 1994. I was 24 years old. I put 5% down. I don't know how long it would have taken me to save up $84,000. If I continued to live at my Grandmom's, and put some effort at it, maybe somewhat quickly. But if I had to move out and pay rent, it wouldn't have been feasible.
So, perhaps it's feasible to think that in 10 years, I could have saved up $84K? Well, 10 years after I bought the condo, I sold it for $185K, so that wouldn't have cut it. For comparison, around the time my condo sold, I had about $130K saved/invested, so I would still have come up short.
It sold again in 2007, for $245K. By then, I think I had about $400K saved/invested, so I could have paid cash. However, a substantial chunk of what I had amassed, was thanks to the sale of that condo, so if I did that, I'd have a free-and-clear home, but not much saved up otherwise.
Now it sold again, during a market low, in 2017 for only $190K. I could have paid cash for it easily by then. In 2022 it went for $278K, and Redfin now thinks it's worth around $313K.
Sometimes I do wish I had stayed at home a bit longer, and saved up a larger down payment. But no way in hell would I have wanted to live with my grandmother until I could afford to pay cash for it!
It just goes to show you that there is good debt and bad debt. Mortgages: (generally) Good. Consumer borrowing: Bad. You'd think DR would know and preach this instead of even suggesting that all debt is bad but YMMV.