Moemg
Gone but not forgotten
No, I'm not counter-culture, show me a counter and I'll sit down and order a cup of coffee. O0
Me Too and I'll probably also have a bagel with creme cheese.
No, I'm not counter-culture, show me a counter and I'll sit down and order a cup of coffee. O0
Rich, what is the title of the book you read about Indian Americans?
Although I might have described myself in that way 40 years ago, by now I do not feel part of anything, whether culture or counter-culture.
I am an individualist, and I have finally come to terms with that fact. It is the only way that I can live and be entirely true to myself. Otherwise, I am crowbarring myself into someone else's set of assumptions instead of making my own. We are each inventing ourselves as we live our lives, and in the end, in a sense we are each alone. That is not necessarily so bad.
Dunno that I'm any kind of counter-cultural person. I'm more a Sears poncho kinda guy. Did the Navy thing during the SE Asia adventure under the 4 on the water beats 2 in the jungle theory, but didn't even consider Canada. Did various drugs but didn't join any communes. Had long hair through all our bank loan processes on the properties but finally cut it off a couple years ago. I do think Mick kind of nailed it: [SIZE=-1]"Just as all the cops are criminals, and all that sin are saints, as heads are tails ...." [/SIZE]
I think businesses tend to advertise what they wish they had (customer service, lowest prices) and that people tend to gravitate toward the things they feel weakest in: I funded our real estate with work as a mechanic, though i don't feel i've any natural mechanical bent. Now as a landlord I do a fair amount of social stuff with tenants though i am by nature withdrawn. Could it be that we are all internally counter to our selves? Thus being most likely in a culture foreign to our inner essence; thus countercultural?
Parents (and extended family) looming over your shoulders with mounting pressure to adhere doesn't make it an easy decision to make, even if you know what you really want, because then it becomes rebellion and ultimately abandonment if you go against the grain. For me, the toughest part was (and still is) trying to figure out which life I really want - a merger of the two is practically unheard of.
If you're on this forum you're probably saving money and thinking about the future, so you're different from most Americans, but would you additionally describe yourself as part of a "counter culture"?