My DB assumes, always has over the years, he will come and stay with us over holidays, last summer he spent 7 weeks at our house. Now, it's become a health issue. He will need a hip replacement in the near future and has invited himself to come and stay with us. He's FI, retired professor and is secure in his future. I just found this out this morning. What extent do I offer our house, time interruption of our lifestyle to accommodate his situation?
I suddenly am thinking, are we now a care center? I'm having a hard time with this. Has anyone been put in a similar position? We're happily FIRE, have our schedules. DH, his consulting, my volunteer work which I chose due to the love of our forest preserves.
I suddenly am thinking, are we now a care center? I'm having a hard time with this. Has anyone been put in a similar position? We're happily FIRE, have our schedules. DH, his consulting, my volunteer work which I chose due to the love of our forest preserves.
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