Reading many of these posts I guess DW and I must have great family and friends back home in England. They don't ask me how much I earn (DW is RE'd 3 years now) or how much savings we have. They wouldn't understand net worth and the like as they are all still very much salt of the earth hourly paid workers for the most part.
They see us both almost every year, me several times a year, and although they envy our situation they are VERY pleased for us. We never flaunt our money and would never attempt to pay more than our fair share down the pub etc, but we take great pleasure in being able to fly them out to see us, particularly at times such as our daughter's wedding, or for my father to visit my brother in Australia.
We have also been in the position to give a helping hand up to each of my sisters and also twice to my brother when they have ended up, through no fault of their own, (lay-offs each time) short of money for a few months. In each of the 4 occaisions it was a few thousand dollars, interest free, and they always paid us back as soon as they were back on their feet.
Friends at work are envious that I can retire very soon and assume that it is because I have worked for the firm for almost 30 years and have a good pension. That is not true for various reasons, but I don't see any reason to discuss the details with them. Again, they are genuinely pleased for us. They see us living in a small place compared to them (1,400 sq feet) and we drive older, smaller cars so they have no reason to suspect how much money we really have. They see that we go on various "exotic" vacations every year so don't consider me to be a miser.
They see us both almost every year, me several times a year, and although they envy our situation they are VERY pleased for us. We never flaunt our money and would never attempt to pay more than our fair share down the pub etc, but we take great pleasure in being able to fly them out to see us, particularly at times such as our daughter's wedding, or for my father to visit my brother in Australia.
We have also been in the position to give a helping hand up to each of my sisters and also twice to my brother when they have ended up, through no fault of their own, (lay-offs each time) short of money for a few months. In each of the 4 occaisions it was a few thousand dollars, interest free, and they always paid us back as soon as they were back on their feet.
Friends at work are envious that I can retire very soon and assume that it is because I have worked for the firm for almost 30 years and have a good pension. That is not true for various reasons, but I don't see any reason to discuss the details with them. Again, they are genuinely pleased for us. They see us living in a small place compared to them (1,400 sq feet) and we drive older, smaller cars so they have no reason to suspect how much money we really have. They see that we go on various "exotic" vacations every year so don't consider me to be a miser.