I suppose some of you have dealt with this. You have a large family (in my case 4 kids) who are/planning on having kids (1st grandkid on the way) and still own the family home (larger, has all the accommodations if kids/grandkids visit... pool, big finished basement, everything sized for more peeps). Additionally, home has been transformed over the years to meet all mine and my wife's personal creature comforts (i.e. professional kitchen, wine room, outside kitchen/fireplace) so we have certain things we hate to give up or would want to replicate in a smaller home, should we downsize. So the dilemma... when I look at all the related costs to keeping a 7K SF of house up and running/maintained and compare that with the potential savings of a downsize, it looks like real money. On the flip side, this is "home" to us and our kids and has all the space to invite everyone over. If I argue $$, I could justify that having say an additional $25K/yr to throw at trips (family or other) by downsizing could be worth the losing the "big" house for everyone to stay/play? My RE launch is scheduled for end of 2019 and I go back and forth with stay or go. Any of you with bigger families resolve this without any regrets??