friar1610
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This is the third and last home we will own. When we retired and moved here I said even if we hate it here we are never moving again. Moving is exhausting and expensive and stressful!
But more than that, our requirements for this home was so we could age in it. So even though we are in our late 60’s I felt we had to plan for our 80’s. It’s just common sense and realistic.
I worked in home care and health care most of my life so I’ve seen it all, not to mention what I went through with my parents.
It’s not just getting older, it’s also as you get older physical changes, illnesses, etc. I was surprised with unexpected spine surgery this year. Thank goodness we had already downsized and moved 3 years ago to a one level small home because I couldn’t do it again physically!
Since we moved, the following people we knew have passed on: a man in his 50’s due to COVID; a neighbor 69- developed a rare disorder and was ill for years; my friend at 64 of pancreatic cancer- in one year she was dead ( thankfully she was in a 62 plus apartment) a former coworker at 62 from non smoking lung cancer- also in one year she was dead. Another neighbor had MS for years and yes- finally went into a nursing home and died there- in her 70’s. And last week my neighbor at 75- dropped dead of cardiac arrest. ( he had one lung).
So there you have it. I hope to never go into a nursing home or assisted living, but, yes, there’s no time like the present to prepare for the future. That’s why some people get long term insurance and life insurance and do estate planning.
I certainly hear you. When we moved here 10 years ago I said that was the last move I would actively participate in. By that I meant I would either be wheeled out feet first or be so out of it that someone else would be doing all the work of moving us to senior/nursing/memory care. Fortunately (knock on wood) neither has happened yet. But obviously things can change in a moment.
I spent 28 years in the Navy so I know what moving is like. It’s frankly a tossup whether or not I have another move in me.