Update:
NFCU has a form to request removal of a joint owner. She keeps all her numbers on all her existing NFCU accounts, although some of them are only a digit or two different from mine. I filled out the form, mailed it off, and four days later I couldn't see her accounts on the website anymore. Now any money going from my checking account to hers is a "member-to-member transfer".
She's been having problems tracking (and controlling) her spending, [-]her own damn fault[/-] to put it mildly, so she set up her checking account to automatically transfer a portion of her NROTC stipend to her savings account every payday. She's starting out slow while she re-estimates her budget, so we'll see how it works out. At least a seed has been planted. She's been spending way too much money keeping her spiffy new NROTC uniforms looking sharp, so spouse and I have been teaching her how "real Navy" does it.
As I mentioned on another thread she's signed herself up for a PenFed account, she linked her NFCU checking account to it, and she got ready to transfer money for CDs. PenFed immediately slapped a $50/day (that's only
fifty dollars per day) limit on ACH transfers. I guess that's in effect until someone reviews the website activity next week and decides to trust that account for more money per day. Anyway it's a good thing that the PenFed thread (
http://www.early-retirement.org/forums/f28/funding-those-penfed-5-cds-53839.html#post1016083) mentioned using the NFCU account as a funding source for the CDs instead of doing ACHs, or we would've quashed all motivation of a newbie investor. So now she's set up her CDs/emergency fund in an account where it'll be difficult for her to impulsively raid the goodies.
She's signed herself up for a Fidelity account and filled out the asset-transfer forms. Fidelity apparently can do some IRA transfers online with some fund companies but the T. Rowe Price paperwork has to be snail-mailed in. She's linked her checking account to Fidelity so now she's ready to transfer more $$ over for her 2010 Roth contribution and pick a suitable fund. It'll be interesting to see if she decides to go international or small-cap value, index fund or ETF, or just total stock market. Over the last five years of her investor's education she's definitely proven to be a "set & forget" type. No Buffett hardwiring appears to exist.
She's considering her Amex "blue cash" credit-card offer, but she's also shopping NFCU's, USAA's, and PenFed's offers. I'm beginning to think that getting her own card (and getting off mine) may take a few extra weeks, but hopefully the application will be in the mail before she goes back to college.
I think she's decided not to mess with another ATM card. She can always use her NFCU ATM card around campus or in town (for a fee). There's also a check-cashing window on campus, but it's 20 minutes of standing in line before she has cold hard cash in her hot little hands. She hopes that the inconvenience will discourage her from impulsive spending. She'll have to let us know that works out.
Next week she needs to get a quote from Armed Forces Insurance on personal property policies. (Spouse and I don't insure our PP, but we can handle being burgled or burned out.) I'm not sure it's worth it for a laptop, a cell phone, and a few uniforms but it'll be a useful financial discussion.
Spouse and I have done a little soul-searching of our own and decided that we're not being as tough as we could. We've been fairly generous with the finances over the last four months (as have her grandparents and her aunt/uncle) but all it's teaching our progeny to do is to be more creative & innovative about new ways to tap into the college fund.
So far her solution to "ain't got no money" has been "go find more money" instead of "stop digging". After four months of college [-]liberty[/-] lifestyle she has some amazing [-]affluenza entitlement[/-] memories but not much else to show for it. She's realized this on her own, and she appears to have vowed to change her ways, but we've seen this act a couple times already and I'm skeptical. We won't say anything unless she brings it up, but she's got a surprise coming the next time she feels that the college fund "needs" to ride to the rescue.
She just realized that holiday break is half over, there's only 12 days left, and she hasn't even started her tax returns yet. As UncleMick says, heh-heh-heh...