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I appreciate your take on this situation. My wife and I are contemplating leaving our home state for another one with less taxes and corrupt government. She thinks that moving "closer to the daughter" would be great. I, however, believe that I would lose my freedom and quiet time. I have often wondered if this was not selfish of me. Now I see that many feel as I do. I agree that time DOES fly by.
I hear you. Our kids/grandkids are all within 20 minutes. I love my grands, however, I , too, am pooped after spending the days with them. But, they are only little for such a short time, and then they are teenagers off with their friends, and you most likely will not see them as much.
If it were me, I wouldn't say anything and let your DD and SIL purchase their house on their own. If they happen to move across the street and your worst fears come to pass, it would be reasonable to set boundaries with visitation time if you absolutely had too.
Continue to live your retirement as planned, go travel, etc.and enjoy the fact that your kids want to be in your life and be close. Time flies far too quickly
I appreciate your take on this situation. My wife and I are contemplating leaving our home state for another one with less taxes and corrupt government. She thinks that moving "closer to the daughter" would be great. I, however, believe that I would lose my freedom and quiet time. I have often wondered if this was not selfish of me. Now I see that many feel as I do. I agree that time DOES fly by.