Hello everyone,
I have been reading this forum for about two years now and want to express my gratitude to everyone in this group. You are funny, insightful, kind, helpful, and most importantly, give me inspiration every week that the FIRE life is a great one!
I am 53 years old, with one kid in 11th grade and another a sophomore in college. I left a high stress full time job about 18 months ago to help care for my two parents who died in the past two years, as well as be around for my kids before they left for good. I have been married 30 years next week and my husband is a federal employee who is set to retire at age 57 1/2 in three years with a pension after 30 years of dedicated service. He could FIRE now but it is worth it to us to get the pension for life, plus health insurance before Medicare kicks in.
I have been working 24 hours a week during the pandemic as a Pandemic Pod Tutor, just to get out of the house, and will probably keep working part time in education until my husband retires. We have lots of plans to travel and have more than enough funds to live a comfortable life. The kids colleges are covered, and our mortgage is fully paid off.
My one burning question revolves around estate planning, and I have not seen any clear postings about this area over the past two years and hoping the group could help me figure this out. I am the executor of my father's estate, and he placed most of his assets in a trust to avoid probate, and his estate attorney charged us 1% of the value of the trust assets to settle, and 3% of the non-trust assets to settle. Thank goodness we sold his house before he died, so it is pretty simple to manage. The only probate asset is his car and the rest are stocks in Fidelity that will be disbursed through the trust.
This has left my husband and I to try to figure out if we need to do a trust as well. Our assets are far below the $11 m threshold, and are all in IRAs, cash, stocks, and the house. It is my understanding that if all our assets have direct beneficiaries to our two children, that they will avoid probate and avoid having to pay these legal fees that I am paying right now for my father. Am I missing something here? Is it enough to have a will, advanced medical directive and POA directive, and beneficiaries and not have to go through the hassle of creating a trust, which to me, based on my own experience right now, seems to have made my father's estate attorney a lot of money?
Thanks for your advice or at least where to go to learn more.
I have been reading this forum for about two years now and want to express my gratitude to everyone in this group. You are funny, insightful, kind, helpful, and most importantly, give me inspiration every week that the FIRE life is a great one!
I am 53 years old, with one kid in 11th grade and another a sophomore in college. I left a high stress full time job about 18 months ago to help care for my two parents who died in the past two years, as well as be around for my kids before they left for good. I have been married 30 years next week and my husband is a federal employee who is set to retire at age 57 1/2 in three years with a pension after 30 years of dedicated service. He could FIRE now but it is worth it to us to get the pension for life, plus health insurance before Medicare kicks in.
I have been working 24 hours a week during the pandemic as a Pandemic Pod Tutor, just to get out of the house, and will probably keep working part time in education until my husband retires. We have lots of plans to travel and have more than enough funds to live a comfortable life. The kids colleges are covered, and our mortgage is fully paid off.
My one burning question revolves around estate planning, and I have not seen any clear postings about this area over the past two years and hoping the group could help me figure this out. I am the executor of my father's estate, and he placed most of his assets in a trust to avoid probate, and his estate attorney charged us 1% of the value of the trust assets to settle, and 3% of the non-trust assets to settle. Thank goodness we sold his house before he died, so it is pretty simple to manage. The only probate asset is his car and the rest are stocks in Fidelity that will be disbursed through the trust.
This has left my husband and I to try to figure out if we need to do a trust as well. Our assets are far below the $11 m threshold, and are all in IRAs, cash, stocks, and the house. It is my understanding that if all our assets have direct beneficiaries to our two children, that they will avoid probate and avoid having to pay these legal fees that I am paying right now for my father. Am I missing something here? Is it enough to have a will, advanced medical directive and POA directive, and beneficiaries and not have to go through the hassle of creating a trust, which to me, based on my own experience right now, seems to have made my father's estate attorney a lot of money?
Thanks for your advice or at least where to go to learn more.