Weeding, I get, it is necessary, but you can develop some personal tolerance for less than perfect. Assuming you've put down some kind of weed barrier? Or maybe some kind of spreading grown cover like phlox or periwinkle. And really, there's nothing to say you can't put down some decorative rock in problem areas and do a bit of a hybrid like in Arizona. They do that there out of necessity, not because that's the only place you can do something like that.
Trimming, why not just let the plants take their natural size and place? Did the landscaper not plan for this? Maybe you need to get a different landscaper in there to make suggestions on how to correct your issues. Hopefully you don't have to tear it up and start over.
Even more so with the moving around of plants. Why? Put them where they belong and leave them be. A garden that has a bit of a wild look can be every bit as nice as a meticulously manicured one.
I'm not a real gardener, so I can't really offer great ideas, but don't let yourself become a prisoner to your garden.
I've become more tolerant for less than perfect over the years. We've found that the weed barrier doesn't help much- just makes it harder to pull the weeds out. We've added some ground cover in the last couple of years and that seems to really help. Now that you mention that, I think the work load has decreased quite a bit in those areas.
Weeding can be reduced. Do you have weed barriers and mulch? Natural mulch must be applied thick, needs a new layer every year(IMHO). I have seen, but never tried, a mulch made from shreaded tires. It was not cheap, but it shouldn't decay. Have you tried Preen as a weed preventive? Worked well, but you are applying chemicals.
Not sure I understand why you need to move plants, we did very little of that.
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Again, no weed barriers but we really should be using more mulch. Tried the Preen, but not sure it did much. We have bird feeders, which we have to fill a couple time a day, so this might be creating some of the weed problems. We're not moving a lot of plants... we have daisies, purple cone flowers, etc. that tend to spread which is nice but sometimes they start to grow in areas where I don't want them... like in the middle of another shrub or something. Maybe I just shouldn't worry about it.
After 15 years of experimenting, my system has evolved to this: Pine needles, roundup, Christmas trees, and heather. The goal is a forest-floor motif.
I use roundup in the spring to kill anything that tries to grow in the pine needles.
I plant Christmas-type trees, or allow the volunteers to grow.
I plant some heather plants.
The heather does really well here, even with little sun. It grows very slowly, doesn't need any maintenance, and blocks out other plants.
I've had rosemary in the past, but that required some maintenance.
Really like this approach. Very nice and easy to maintain!
Mine (so far) are just grasses. But I want to get some wildflowers going too. We coop a garden on a nearby farm, and the farmer planted wildflowers in the garden a few months ago. This is how they looked today. Amazing that the wildflowers could have grown 4' tall in a few months.
Beautiful!