Never got anything financial from my parents, they didn't really have much to give, but I had a good upbringing with no issues. I consider that a big deal when I see all the problems many people have.
When it comes to our kids, we supported them through college, although they got tuition mostly paid through good grades. Then 3 years working out of college, my daughter decided to be a dentist. We have the assets and paid for that, it took 6 years for her to get the premed and a masters before she finished Dental school. During the last year of school her and her husband found a fixer upper house and through no fault of theirs the closing kept getting delayed. I finally said, I'll buy it and give you a two year mortgage, they rehabbed the house and refinanced it in 9 months. So, ya, gave my daughter a lot of financial support. A year out of dental school, she is part owner of two dental offices.
My son is still living at home, he finished college and has a good job, saving over 50% of his income. When he can't take anymore of living with mom and dad, we will do what we can to get him into a home, probably buying it for him, one way or another. That will be our effort to equalize the spending on the two kids. They are ~ 30 years old plus and minus.
So ya, we have or will, give a lot to our kids, but they are both very responsible and we don't expect any wasting of the assets given to them.
Now, if we can just get my daughter and her husband with an income 4 times her parents, to buy us dinner!