In the heydays of the 80s and 90s, I was so busy with work and raising a family and did not have time to follow the market. I also was ignorant about investing, but knew enough to max out our 401k contributions to get our companies' matching.
I think we both did 50/50 AA in those 20 years. If I knew more, I would have gone more aggressive, although thinking back bond funds would do a lot better than they do recently due to the then falling rate.
It was only when the startup companies I cofounded with friends started getting in trouble in 1998-1999 that I looked at all the unopened statements from MF and 401k accounts, and found out that they added up to a lot more than I thought. And I also discovered that had I paid more attention, perhaps I could have done better.
I got to watch my 7-figure stash on the MS Money screen for a while. And seeing everything going up by leaps and bounds scared the heck out of me. It could not be right. Nobody would have to work with manna falling from the sky. We all stayed home and lived off our stocks. No can do! It was so irrational. It was so wrong.
And then, the dotcom and tech stock implosion happened. And 9/11 delivered the coup de grace to the economy.
As I was the last guy who literally shut down our office, I contemplated how to make a living for the rest of my life. I decided to be a part-time contract worker, so I could work my own hours, and took time off whenever I felt like it. About my investments, this time, I knew to spend time to watch them better.
My records show that from the top on 3/24/2000 to the bottom on 10/29/2002, I was down to 56c on the dollar. The NASDAQ was down to 22c, the S&P 51c, and the Dow at 66c. I was not being singled out for punishment. Heh heh heh...
I regained the old top on 11/17/2004. It took me 2 years to double the money to get back. Yes, I know because I keep daily records.
In 2005, with my portfolio going great gun, I decided to buy a 2nd home in the high-country boondocks, so I could escape the summer heat when I did not feel like working. And I started to travel more, which I could with my part-time work. In 2012, I decided that my portfolio generated way more money than they could pay me to work, so I quit for real. Quitting was hard, because the work could be interesting. If it was boring, I would not take the assignment. Alas, the politics canceled out the fun, and the money just was not enough to compensate.
Life has been great.