My wife and I are both 50 years old and our investment advisor is recomending long term care insurance. I am being treated for high blood pressure and high cholesterol. My wife is not taking any meds. He says that rates are going up 40% in a few weeks (mass Mutual). Three year for me and 5 year for my wife will cost us close to $300 per month. At our income that means we will save that much less a month for retirement. What should we do?