24 replies already! I can't keep up.
Just a few points:
1) DW never showed any interest in our finances. I have been in charge of our finances the whole time and if she had tried to hide money, I'd have caught it.
2) I am not interested in hiding assets from her.
3) Yes, money is important. I may appear callous. But if I don't look after my own interest, nobody else will. My future is at stake.
4) Joint therapy is an option. For the time being, I just want to make sure that I am not overreacting.
Just a few points:
1) DW never showed any interest in our finances. I have been in charge of our finances the whole time and if she had tried to hide money, I'd have caught it.
2) I am not interested in hiding assets from her.
3) Yes, money is important. I may appear callous. But if I don't look after my own interest, nobody else will. My future is at stake.
4) Joint therapy is an option. For the time being, I just want to make sure that I am not overreacting.