LOL. Yeah, we do revisit this topic quite a bit but I only just noticed that one aspect of the topic irritates me like work did. Jollystomper pointed out a quote: I read all those books about getting a life, planning your retirement out, know what you will do, and on and on. I always found it to be a king-sized PITA, just like the equivalent at work. Fifty years ago, I had to do my first analysis of "where do you see yourself in five years." "If you don't know where you are going, you won't know when you get there." Strategic plans out the yin yang. This stuff was endless. I hated it, and the irony is I was a champ at all that. Sure, we needed goals at work, but the personal stuff always felt like BS to me. None of it really panned out or helped me get anywhere. Life and work were much more random that any of that. Man plans, and God laughs.
When I retired, I breathed free. No more planning, just experiencing. I don't need no stinking lists. I don't need a roadmap. I don't want to find my passion. And I don't want responsibilities.
YMMV. You may be completely different. You may thrive on carefully thought-out plans. As for me, I travel, I ride, I read, and I constantly wander down rabbit holes of new interests that keep me endlessly entertained. Sooner or later, end of life issues will jam all that to a halt for all of us. Let's hope we go over a cliff and not tumble down a rocky slope. And thank God, I saved enough to get to the cliff in comfort.