My mother is only 67 but she has been drinking and smoking for 40-50 years, the last 10 years in excess. She has the body of an 87 year old. She has severe pain from arthritis and who knows what else so she also takes hydrocodone, and probably too much of it. She hardly eats and is very very weak, probably because she is full from the pills and vodka. Its hard to feel sorry for her because this is mostly self induced but she's still my mother.
She can barely do anything for herself. She literally can barely get across the room. My wife and I do all of her grocery shopping, take her to her doctor appointments, ect. She is very weak and twice has not been able to get off of the toilet. This evening she called and said she couldn't stand up and get to her walker so she crawled to the living room and laid there for 12 hours. Why she didn't call earlier is beyond me. We live less than a 1/4 mile away and my wife was off all day today.
Anyway, what options would you say we have? She is very stubborn and will refuse to go to any type of assisted living, although we haven't brought up the subject. Does medicare / medicaid pay for any type of nurse to come to the home? Does it pay for anything else that would be helpful including assisted living if it comes to that?
She can barely do anything for herself. She literally can barely get across the room. My wife and I do all of her grocery shopping, take her to her doctor appointments, ect. She is very weak and twice has not been able to get off of the toilet. This evening she called and said she couldn't stand up and get to her walker so she crawled to the living room and laid there for 12 hours. Why she didn't call earlier is beyond me. We live less than a 1/4 mile away and my wife was off all day today.
Anyway, what options would you say we have? She is very stubborn and will refuse to go to any type of assisted living, although we haven't brought up the subject. Does medicare / medicaid pay for any type of nurse to come to the home? Does it pay for anything else that would be helpful including assisted living if it comes to that?