corn18
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Thank you for starting this thread. I talked to my wife yesterday in hopes of trying to establish some parameters for our 2 DDs weddings (they are 22 and 20). To my surprise, she thought that was a not terrible idea. I left it at that as I was not prepared to discuss details, she caught me flat footed by not saying no outright.
You see, I firmly believe that any wedding that we have in our family will be for my wife's fulfillment, not the girls. I've talked to the DDs and know their thoughts. They could care less about a big wedding and would be glad to accept a check in lieu of paying for a fancy wedding. My wife, on the other hand, has a clear vision for what our DDs want for a wedding. And it ain't cheap.
You see, I firmly believe that any wedding that we have in our family will be for my wife's fulfillment, not the girls. I've talked to the DDs and know their thoughts. They could care less about a big wedding and would be glad to accept a check in lieu of paying for a fancy wedding. My wife, on the other hand, has a clear vision for what our DDs want for a wedding. And it ain't cheap.