Pros and Cons of 55+ Active Adult Communities?

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I am going to purchase a home where I and DH can spend the rest of our lives. I am 60 and still working, and DH is 59 and working part time. DH and I are not "handy" and would prefer to live somewhere where basic maintenance, landscaping, pool maintenance, etc. is taken care of by some type of homeowner's association.

I have been looking at various options in the southern California area and ran across Friendly Valley in Santa Clarita. Does anyone have any experience with this development or a development like it, or with a 55+ active community in general?

So for, the pros for me are price range (units available in the $300,000 to $400,000 range), single story, pool and hiking available, lots of open space, quiet area.

The current con would be the commute to my job, but I have some flexibility and can work from home some days.

I would appreciate any information about the pros and cons of living in a 55+ active adult community from people who have experience living in one.

Thank you. :)
 
It’s a individual thing, no right answer.

I’m 65 but I’d much rather live in a mixed generation neighborhood. We thought we’d buy in a 55+ community like an Epcon neighborhood but after a long look, we’re deliberately buying in a mixed gen neighborhood, closing in two weeks.

Every 55 community we considered had higher prices/sqft and much higher HOA fees. If you want to contract out mowing, landscaping (for a tiny lot BTW) and other services it could be a wash. If you want to care for your own yard while you’re able, why pay $250-400/mo?

The 55+ communities we looked at were much more cookie cutter homes inside and out than any mixed gen neighborhood in the same price range. No thanks for us.

It’s probably fun when the community is new and the median age is about 60-65. Twenty years from now when the median age is 80+ it could get pretty grim - ‘misery loves company?’ Drive around one of the much older 55+ communities (20-40 years after they broke ground) and see what it’s like at the clubhouse and around the neighborhood. We drove around an established Del Webb community and you couldn’t pay me to live there. YMMV
 
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The problem with 55+ communities is that you lose a lot of flexibility. Suppose you wanted to have a young family member live with you because that is a better living situation for him/her, all those rules would preclude that. Also, that limits the number of possible purchasers of your home. If you thought condo HOAs were a pain those communities are far worse. Frankly, those communities work for some, but not me.
 
You can buy a condo (apt or townhouse) in many places, and since they are condo's most take care of the exterior maintenance and grass and snow, etc.
 
Nothing wrong with 55+ communities. We really enjoy living in ours even though our participation in the social life is virtually nonexistent. Higher HOA fees because they include yard maintenance which is by far the largest expense - yay! We love having our yard taken care of and not having to deal with hiring landscape folks.

Neighborhood is quiet. Lots of pedestrians out walking in the morning and little vehicle traffic - most of what little there is is due to new home construction and that occurs briefly early and late and not really noticeable even when construction is down the street. Nice green spaces and decent facilities.

This is predominantly a snowbird destination with second (winter) homes, although there are a decent number of us here year round. As a consequence, it's fairly common for folks to sell out as they approach mid-80s to be closer to family members. So we don't have any very elderly folks here.
 
My dad and his lady friend live in a big one in Clearwater, Fl called On Top of the World, and seem to love it. I envy the ease and the community of it and, of course, lack of snow and ice. It has all the organized activities and social opportunities and amenities and they especially enjoy the two golf courses. 2 BR units are around $125K and the HOA fees are less than most condo buildings I know of. The buildings are older cinder block construction and dorm-like. There are some rules, like my dad can’t grow vegetables due to Florida critters. DW would not be interested but, when I visit, it sure seems like easy, basic living among friendly retired folks to me.
 
The problem with 55+ communities is that you lose a lot of flexibility. Suppose you wanted to have a young family member live with you because that is a better living situation for him/her, all those rules would preclude that.
The rules in my 55+ community do not preclude that at all.

Different communities have different rules. Read them before purchasing.

Also, that limits the number of possible purchasers of your home.
In my locale, there is a long waiting list. No worries about possible purchasers.
 
In the area where I live, the +55 communities vary quite a bit in price and floorspace. We looked at 2, and decided against it. Compared to our present home, the A community was higher in price and ongoing costs. The B community is very small floorspace, and dated. We still have a few years to decide.
 
I would appreciate any information about the pros and cons of living in a 55+ active adult community from people who have experience living in one.

I live in a 55+ active living community on the beach. It's been terrific.

Do your homework before purchasing. Learn the financial situation (history of fees and assessments). Learn all the rules and regulations.

Every community is different.
 
Every one is indeed different. We live in a gated HOA non 55+ community. So it has some of the same aspects as a 55+ community, but due to being mixed age, we have made friends with retirees and folks in their 40's to low 50's who are still working.

The fact that it is not in a retirement area also means no waits for daytime errands or night time eating anywhere except Saturday night which we cook then.
I also wonder what resales would be like in a 55+ community after the baby boom generation.
On the flip side, we don't have the wealth of built in activities and clubs like a Villages for example.
 
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I live in a 55+ active living community on the beach. It's been terrific.

We have looked and cannot seem to find a community that does not have $1m homes on or really near a beach. We do not want a condo just yet.
 
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I should have also added size matters to my earlier post.

We’ve looked at several with 80-125 homes/lots. They seemed to have the advantages of a 55+ community but you’re still part of the larger city/town. Best of both worlds for some seniors?

We also visited a couple Del Webb communities with 1000-1200 homes/lots. They seemed more self contained, less a part of the surrounding city/town, with many residents relying on the 55+ community a lot. Of course you can get out as you please, but they had a different vibe than the smaller communities we looked at.
 
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You can, but the whole point is you probably won't, because these places are usually built on cheaper land farther out. When you stick with the "community" providers, you don't have to drive distances to run errands. What I wouldn't like about that, is running into the same people everywhere all the time. I like to fly under the radar.

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We also visited a couple Del Webb communities with 1000-1200 homes/lots. They seemed more self contained, less a part of the surrounding city/town, with many residents relying on the 55+ community a lot. Of course you can get out as you please, t.
 
We bought into a new 55+ community of Single family homes (but ownership is condo so we only maintain the inside). Being a new community, it was very easy to establish new friends as we were all in the same boat. We definitely have taken advantage of the social opportunities. Prior to retirement, I was your basic workaholic, so I never took time to "play". Now its bowling, golfing, weekly socials, house parties, and dinners/lunches out with friends. Couldn't be happier. But to each his own.
 
I live in a +55 MHP in Ventura County, not far (28 miles) from Santa Clarita. The prices on 2BR 2BA units run around $200-250 K. for new units. Space rent is reasonable.
I commuted for a year until I retired. Just crossing into Ventura dropped my stress level totally.
 
We are not 55+ yet, but have looked into it as an option.

I prefer the layout of those homes much better than most other developments. I dont' need 4 bedrooms, we need more living space... bigger kitchens, more indoor/outdoor space, etc which is what 55+ communities build for.

I also liked all the amenities (workout, pool, hiking paths, pocket parks, community garden etc) and you are really buying into a lifestyle. I also prefer to have a pool that is kiddy free which these types of communities often have 1 pool to bring the kids to and 1-2 pools that are adult only.

HOA dues are roughly equal to town home living plus a good gym membership.

The major downside for us is really am I willing to pay up for the lifestyle.. that we are unsure of as price/sq ft is significantly more and the HOA dues are more to cover all the amenities which if we ended up not using would be very costly.

I currently live in the community next to a Del Webb, they come over to walk around our ponds and I go running on their trails so I have time to figure out if it is for us. Many of the people buying in our community are those that looked at Del Webb and bought here as it was cheaper and some didn't want the limit how long the grand kids could stay.

I did find it interesting that they would let us buy-in if one of us was 50 by the time we closed and they said that was only applicable during the initial building phase, else from then on you would have to be 55+. So that also means you can't just will the house to your kids or grand kids if they aren't going to be 55+ when they inherit it. Renters also had to be 55+.
 
The ones locally are very expensive. Property taxes are higher and than HOA fees are high. Plus they are built in the suburbs and we really enjoy being walking distance to downtown and all the events.
 
It’s a individual thing, no right answer.
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It’s probably fun when the community is new and the median age is about 60-65. Twenty years from now when the median age is 80+ it could get pretty grim - ‘misery loves company?’ Drive around one of the much older 55+ communities (20-40 years after they broke ground) and see what it’s like at the clubhouse and around the neighborhood. We drove around an established Del Webb community and you couldn’t pay me to live there. YMMV

+1 on it being an individual thing. I say that based upon my parent's experience in a 55+ community. I still live with the hoi-poloi.

My parent's community was divided into various 'Villages' built over a period of 10-15 years. Probably the best thing about that was that each village aged separately so there was never an overwhelming number of people at certain ages (other than being 55+ of course). And, as I watched my parents age, I noticed that their Village, one of the first, was gradually changing from a village full of 80-somethings to a 55+ something village with young grand-kids hanging out on the weekend. There were always people in wheelchairs and people playing golf, tennis and pickle-ball.

As my mother grew older one thing she enjoyed was the security (she lived alone most of the time). Several times she fell and hurt herself. Her 'emergency button' company immediately contracted the Village Security Services and the EMT's and a Village security guard were on the scene in 5 minutes or less. When a few young couples (kids in their 50's and 60's) moved in, she told me that the place got more interesting. :D

This is not unlike the neighborhood I now live in. My current neighborhood has gone from having families with children, to no children for more than a decade, and now children are playing in the streets again. It's the cycle of life. Enjoy it.
 
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I live in an over-55 condo community of just over a dozen units in a beach community south of Boston. (The community is not on the beach). No pool, clubhouse, etc. The major advantages are that all yard work and snow plowing gets taken care of. I'm still physically capable, at 74, of doing that work but I don't want to. If this were not a condo I Would still pay someone to do it for me.

The major disadvantages are that we have a private road, a private septic system and a fair amount of land. So, a lot to maintain. With relatively few units, there are not really enough units to shoulder the costs, so the fees are high.

I personally prefer the smaller condo neighborhood but have come to see that you don't have the economies of scale that you would have in a much larger development. I think this is an important issue to understand when considering a community and before making a purchase decision.
 
We live in a Private G&CC community, it is not age restricted but it may as well be as there are a lot of old Golfers who live here and not many kids. The GC is private so membership is not mandated. It is a Club Corp Golf Club. HOA is fine and fees are more than reasonable without the GC membership. Being a private club they keep the grounds and roads very well maintained.
 
A few times thought about 55+ area living.

Each time the answer is no. I am 71 getting closer to 72. Own my home mortgage free.

These communities have MANY RULES, strike 1
They are full of old people, strike 2
I'd have to put up with the prvious two items daily, strike 3
 
Thank You

Thank you to everyone who replied to my original post. All of your thoughts and advice are useful.
 
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