Orchidflower
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
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Don't know about most of you, but I want BigNick as my daddy in my next life...hint, hint.
Our son never returned home after college, which he attended on our nickle. He and his college girlfriend, both engineers, got jobs in the same city and moved in together. A year later, I did pay for the booze at their wedding reception and several years after that bought them a mini-van when grandchild #3 was on the way.how far do/did you plan to support your kids after they finished college/left home?
Enough is enough when your personal allocation of your money says that you'd get more enjoyment from spending it someplace else. Much of this has to do with how much money you have. If funding grandkids' college accounts means you take zero vacations.......ahhh......I don't think I'd do that. If funding grandkids' college accounts means you get a new car every five years instead of every two years, why that would sound good to me. You have to make those allocation decisions yourself.At what point is "enough" enough? (If I stayed at work until 65, and put the excess above expenditure into a trust fund, I could probably have both children's future retirements provided for!)